As soon as I landed my first job, I went out and bought the cutest
new suit! It was a shiny gray suit with pink pinstripes, and I bought a
bright pink shirt and matching pink heals to complement it. I couldn’t
wait to wear to wear it. The day finally came when I was asked to attend
an important meeting. I proudly suited up, strutted into the room,
and….BAM! I immediately became uncomfortably aware of the fact I was the
ONLY person NOT wearing a black suit – women included! Flushed pink
with embarrassment (a perfect match to my shirt and shoe color),
I shrunk into the first chair I could find and hoped that no one would
notice me…although I’m sure I was hard to miss. Has that ever happened
to you?
My immediate reaction was to run to the department store and redo my
entire work wardrobe with all black outfits! After all, I wanted to be
taken seriously as a professional, and how could I do that in hot pink
clothes? After some serious thinking, I decided buying black outfits to
feel like I fit in was a ridiculous idea. I also thought about how I
could use my colorful wardrobe to my advantage. Here is what I learned:
#1 – Colors commanded attention – Eyes are naturally drawn towards
bright colors. When you’re wearing a striking color amidst a sea of
black and gray, you will automatically be noticed. Immediately, you have
everyone’s attention. Use this attention to your advantage! Make new
connections. Build relationships. Promote your business.
#2 – Colors promote femininity – Femininity is a powerful tool! Like
it or not, men like working with women who have managed to retain their
feminine qualities while also displaying strength. Likewise, women enjoy
working with women they can relate to. Strength without femininity can
actually compromise your ability to earn respect with your counterparts.
Having a colorful wardrobe with pinks, reds, purples, polka-dots,
floral prints, etc., helps evoke a sense of femininity and makes you
appear more approachable. Try it, especially if your strong personality
tends to be intimidating.
#3 – Colors create reaction – Did you know, the color you wear
actually creates a psychological reaction in others? Know your colors
and the reaction they create! This can help you land that job, succeed
in negotiations, or secure that sale. Purple can make you appear
approachable. Red can evoke power. Emerald green creates a sense of
strength. Consider dressing in color a strategy for success!
Here are some commanding color ideas for you to try!
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